LOVE IS A Decision

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....IF IT'S broken, don't try to fix it. Cynthia Chongo, a love coach and student teacher once said "Don't not be too quick to decide on love but be quick to know the real person."


She added that anyone in life is the master planner of his/her emotions and feelings which should be used in love. At the moment, write to share something I recently learnt about "dating" .Dating sometimes can set you up in a heartache.

Anyone in life, will never love and respect fully if he or she doesn't fit in a relationship. Some will only give a piece of their heart as someone is already in their heart. No matter what, you can never win. If they lie by saying their single, you will be able to tell by the way they treat you.

There is someone else who is more important, someone they truly love,respect and will never let go off.
They will not have time for you and won't give you enough attention. You'll get many excuse about who and why can't be with you.

The sad thing about dating is people becomes slaves, they beg and do all thoughts of thing in order to maintain or not lose love. Others are multi-partners, who don't depend on one partner, they can't beg, they will just agree and let you go as if you never mattered.

They have someone else in their life and they don't care about your feelings. Love is becoming the murder capital in all human race. It is the most controversial issue in the world now. God is love but why are we failing to love. Why is it after broke up it turns to hate up.


#LoveIsDecision
Youth-activist and advocate
Walu-B

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