TWINS WHO UNITED PARENTS AFTER DIVORCE…

DO you think you have problems, wait until you hear about someone’s difficulties and when we talk of divorce,  the Kabwe born and bred fraternal twin-sisters; Brenda and Jacqueline Chilangisha circumscribe it all.

As they say heartbreak is a loss, divorce is a piece of paper. Then in this world nothing is more painful watching your own parents breaking up. Divorce is always complicated especially when children are involved. Not only there’s court but it cramped with conditions.

But the 20-year-old twins stimulated many after finding ways of encouraging their parents of 22-years in marriage then to continue together by subjecting themselves after divorcing for two years, even though there was court credentials. 

Sometimes never doubt that twins are thoughtful, committed citizens and can change the world in a wink of an eye. Brenda and Jacqueline refused to be separated after their parents’ divorce signifying marriage vowels to be together for better, for worse and to stick together until their parents death does them apart. 

In 2017, their parents decided to split and it was legally then the father went on to marry another woman.  Only Brenda and Jacqueline decided to fellow their father leaving behind three sibling to be with their mother after going through the divorce process. 

 “We were just focusing on prayers and  encouraging our dad to get back to mom. Everything around us just became really sad, leaving with our step mother and feared going home without our dad. 

 

“One of the other biggest factors for us was never could fully trust a man or getting into a relationships, because we feared we would have the same thing our parents did.” Jacqueline younger twin said. 

 Brenda also added the pain, stress, and depression that came along with it; “How it affected each aspect of our lives, and parents who are divorced should think of their children because its them who suffers more. The countless nights we will spent crying in bed but we thank God, we had courage to convince them to be together.” 

 Hence, divorce indeed it’s just a strange segment, unremarkable and discombobulating, more especially when indeed children are involved, definitely they get affected and suffered more.

And marriage experts says if you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you are allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.

As they say; “We’re architect of our destiny.” What we achieve is what we resolve to do. When the reverie is big enough, there will always be someone who will be a source of encouragement and support us.”

 

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By Walusungu Silweya

Co-founder/Director 

Twins Plus Foundation 

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